Do not force children to write such letters!

It is written on January, 13th, 2008
In all difficult, unsuccessful families children when parents quarrel most of all suffer, children when parents are angry worry, children when parents get divorced worry, children suffer. When parents suffer from alcoholic dependence, their children suffer from this alcoholic dependence even more strongly. Do not force children to write such letters!

You know, mum, seems to me, that you have provoked the father that it became such malicious. You constantly regretted yourself. Said, that it it is guilty that you became the alcoholic. Though both of us well know, that it is a lie. It really was the idler and the drunkard. But even then, when he has died, in you has changed nothing. After all together with his death the reason has disappeared, and you and further remained such what was. I understand, that is possible «подзалететь», I know, that you did not want the child.

That the loved one did not drink

It is written on December, 15th, 2007
The next success in search of an interesting material and the informative facts – very good article. I urgently recommend to read to people who do not know how to conduct with close people who are sick of an alcoholism.


- Do nothing for the alcoholic! That it can make itself, it should do itself. Do not solve its problem, not having given it possibility to solve her. Allow or solve a problem, or to incur consequences of the personal irresponsible actions (work losses, debts etc.) Only then it will have possibility to see to what it was finished by drunkenness and, maybe, will want to change the life.

The alcoholic and its environment

It is written on August, 5th, 2007
For all alcoholics typical distinctive line is limitation of interests. At the alcoholic in any case the circle of interests varies, and in the centre of this circle of interests always there is a bottle. And therefore, what theme would not mention, business all the same will end with binge. Alcohol becomes the most important thing in a life of each alcoholic, and no other values any more play a role.

For the alcoholic many defects in general are characteristic: falsity, falling of authority on a family and working collective, often roughness. The alcoholic ceases to speak to the wife tender words, starts to give to children, the family has less than attention, forgets to please with a gift or joint walk.

The alcoholic has a snack health of the relatives

It is written on July, 27th, 2007
Ploughed open spaces of the Internet in search of articles and stories about a female alcoholism for the Blog, and has come across correct article which tells about a heavy share of women, whose husbands - alcoholics. The Lord alcoholics, necessarily read and reflect on what torments are brought to the favourite wife by your passion to alcohol.

There is such aphorism: «the Alcoholic has a snack health of the relatives». Including – and health mental. The life with the alcoholic is a life with the idiot. Only one difference: the idiot is not guilty in the ущербности, it cannot overcome its strong-willed effort … Recently saw transfer where "stars"-alcoholics shared councils as it is better to stop to drink. One known товарисч has told: «It is necessary to fall in love simply». Also has fallen in love. Certainly, not in the wife - "shrew" who fought for its sober mind of 10 years, and in the girl посвежее and is younger.

In Poland the drunk baby was born

It is written on July, 18th, 2007
In a city of Zabrze in the south of Poland the drunk baby was born, reports AFP. It is informed, that at the moment of sorts its 34-year-old mother was absolutely drunk. The analyses spent later of 12 hours after occurrence of the baby on light, have shown, that in blood at the newborn 1,2 grammes of alcohol contain. It is equivalent to as though the adult person has drunk a bottle of wine or two litres of beer.

Doctors have placed the child in a hospital of the strengthened therapy as were afraid of almost irreversible defeat of a brain owing to an alcoholic intoxication. Having sobered up, mother has run away from hospital, however already next day has been detained by police. It is known, that at it already five children. The care of them is assigned to the grandmother with the grandfather as the woman is deprived the parental rights.

The child stirred to fun, and it have thrown out from the eighth floor

It is written on July, 17th, 2007
In our life in our country already a little that can be surprised, but that happens on July, 10th in Republic Komi capital (Syktyvkar) is beyond understanding of any sane person. Being in drunk charcoal fumes, the group "having a rest" has thrown out from the eighth floor of the kid of one and a half years отроду which stirred to their drunk fun.

In Republic Komi полутoрагодовалого the child have thrown out from oкна вoсьмoго a floor in oднoй from apartments of Syktyvkar. From traumas, пoлученных as a result of falling with big высoты, the kid пoгиб.

Alcohol has transformed schoolboys into murderers and tyrants

It is written on July, 15th, 2007
Looked through news on a theme interesting me, mentions of drunk tragedies was much, here one of them:

In Kyzyl drunk schoolboys have made three murders and rape for a night. The Office of Public Prosecutor of capital of Republic Tuva of Kyzyl has excited criminal case concerning two schoolboys who have killed for one night of three persons. On the night of March, 9th in streets of Kyzyl it was revealed three corpses.

According to Office of Public Prosecutor, about 3 o'clock in the morning near house N20 along the street the Worker the body of the 50-year-old man with the cut throat was revealed. After four hours on a corner of street Krasnogvardejsky corpses of the man and the woman, 31 and 39 years have been found. It is established, that them have beaten to death, informs "Interfax".

Death of children because of the drunk militiaman

It is written on July, 14th, 2007
To find examples of the terrible things occurring because of drunkenness and an alcoholism, it is enough to be able to use search. Not each person who sits down drunk to a wheel, knows, that for it waits, and that he can do … and as to it after that to live further. Here the next example of drunkenness at the wheel which has led to tragedy. News for May, 17th on materials Утро.ua:

Two children were lost also one is injured in road and transport incident on Volhynia. As informs УНИАН referring to the Center of public relations УМВС of Ukraine in the Volynsk region, the tragedy has occurred on May, 16th nearby 20:00 in Gorokhov in the street Berestechkivsky.